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نصائح نفسية تستحق المعرفة والتجربة..

1- عندما يصرخ شخص ما في وجهك ، إحتفظ بهدوئك ، فهذا سيزيد غضبه في البداية ثم يشعر بالخجل ، ثم يشعر بالأذى أكثر مما شعرت أنت .

2- خاطب الناس الذين تقابلهم لأول مرة بأسمائهم ، سيجعلهم ذلك يشعرون بالثقة و الود اتجاهك .

3- إذا وجدت صعوبة في تعلم أمر ما ، قم بتعليمه لشخص آخر فذا سيجعلك اكثر إنتباهاً و سيساعدك على تعلمه .

4- إذا أردت أن تطلب معروفا من شخص علاقتك به ليست وطيدة ، أطلب منه طلب بسيط أولاً قبل أن تطلب منه ما تريد ، فالناس أكثر ميلا لقبول طلب أشخاص قبلوا تلبية طلبهم سابقا .

5- إذا كنت تعمل في خدمة العملاء ضع مرآة خلفك بحيث يرى العميل فيها نفسه و ستندهش من تأثير ذلك على العملاء الغاضبين .

6- إذا كنت في نقاش ساخن ، تجنب إستخدام كلمة ” أنت ” لأنها كلمة إتهامية و لن تساعد في تقريب وجهات النظر .

7- إذا كنت تتوقع هجوما من شخص ما في أحد الإجتماعات إجلس بجواره مباشرة فسيقلل هذا من حدة هجومه عليك .

8- إذا كنت خجولا و تريد أن تكون صاحب حضور قوي حينما تقابل شخص ما حاول تبيّن لون عينيه ، هذا سيجعلك تنظر إلي عينيه مباشرة فهذا يقدمك بصورة قوية .

9- قم بمضغ العلكة قبل أن تقوم بأمور تشعر فيها بالتوتر مثل مخاطبة الجمهور فهذا يزيل الشعور بالخطر .

10- إذا حاول شخص ما التهرب من سؤالك أو أجاب إجابة مقتضبة ، إستمر في النظر لعينيه في صمت فهذا سيحرجه و سيجعله يستمر في الكلام .

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